View Full Version : Soft, Hard, and Extreme
Gaystoryman
01-24-2009, 10:40 AM
Okay we have had lots of discussion of what the criteria is for softcore porn, versus hardcore, but what do you consider being classed as extreme?
Is it piss and scat sites, or what?
dzinerbear
01-24-2009, 11:08 AM
This is tough one.
Vanilla people are going to find guys wearing leather, slapping each other's butts, and saying, "Yeah, suck Daddy's dick," as being extreme.
I think you kind of have to put your personal tastes aside to a certain extent — just because you don't like something or wouldn't do it doesn't necessarily mean it's extreme.
In my opinion, piss is borderline, it's fairly common with a lot of gay men. Likewise with dildos and other toys, so many men use them, I wouldn't call them extreme. I might call a dildo that is as big around as a box of Kleenex extreme, but a Jeff Stryker dildo is just adventurous or ambitious.
But here's my list of extreme: scat, blood, temporary piercing, heavy BDSM, sounds rods, fisting, kidnapping, scene play, electricity, humiliation, rape fantasies, and I'm sure others will add more.
I don't consider bareback sex to be extreme in spite of your personal opinion about it; however, I might put "Dawson's 50-Load Weekend" in an extreme category simply because it's way over the top.
Nice topic, Ian. Be interesting to see what others tag as extreme.
Michael
basschick
01-24-2009, 11:33 AM
things that came to my mind first : hard throat fucking, gagging, electricity applied to anus, VERY large sex toys, fisting over the wrist or double fisting, punching in the balls and stomach, real bukkake, punishment leaving heavy welts or bruising, kidnap and rape fantasies, extreme verbal humiliation (not something like "you've been a bad boy".
marcjacob
01-24-2009, 11:39 AM
Ive long said that UK webmasters should avoid piss sites. Im just not convinced its legal here.
Speaking purley from a UK point of view, I think softcore is naked without erections, hardcore is with. If their dick is hard, id call it hardcore for those purposes. Here girls can get their boobs out at 16 and have that published in national newspapers, but they cant show their pussy. So id guess with straight, no pussy is softcore and with pussy is hardcore.
Ive never seen a national paper publish a limp dick either.
AlexManifestMan
01-24-2009, 11:40 AM
I can't define it but I know it when I see.
basschick
01-24-2009, 11:53 AM
maybe they feel no one wants to see one :D
Ive never seen a national paper publish a limp dick either.
marcjacob
01-24-2009, 12:18 PM
maybe they feel no one wants to see one :D
Probably. They did have the "page 7 stunner" which was a half naked man, years ago now. I used to look at him when I did my paper round rofl
That didnt last very long, they must have got complaints from their male readers.
Craig
01-24-2009, 12:26 PM
I can't define it but I know it when I see.
:whip: <- Extreme
AlexManifestMan
01-24-2009, 02:09 PM
:whip: <- Extreme
Well that and anything involving a severed cow head in lucite.